I think: I would like to take N back to a story right now, like a rake. I would say, "Oh, this rake is uneven. Do you have any where the tines go straight across?" I would like to do a straight exchange. But there are things that cannot be returned. Errant husbands are one of them. Wives are not. Wives can be exchanged; I have always known this. Suzanne Finnamore
About This Quote

The idea that one could exchange a wife (or husband) after the fact is an unsettling idea. This quote is about how one can never return to the past and be able to take it all back. It is not possible to change the past, just as it is impossible to change the course of destiny. It cannot be done.

This quote says that if you act on impulse, regrets always follow. The only thing you can do with the past is correct your mistakes and learn from them so you don’t repeat them.

Source: Split: A Memoir Of Divorce

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